His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr.

His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Harley Jr. explores the distinct emotional and relational needs of men and women in marriage, emphasizing how understanding and meeting each other’s core needs can create a strong, lasting relationship.

Harley identifies ten essential needs—five typically prioritized by men and five by women—covering aspects like affection, admiration, sexual fulfillment, conversation, and recreational companionship.

By recognizing and fulfilling each other’s needs, couples can build trust, prevent misunderstandings, and create a deeper emotional bond.

Harley’s approach aims to make marriages more fulfilling and, ultimately, affair-proof.